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Tired of leaving the club empty handed? Wish you could go out and pick up any girl you want? Me too.

I’ve decided to focus this post on various tips you can use next time your out. In the past, I have read many articles online and books that were recommended to me, but nothing compares to my personal experiences with the many women that I have met in my life. Some were very unique and offered valuable lessons, others offered nothing more than a reassurance that most of them are all the same.

The one thing I have learned is that confidence is key. I can’t express that enough. Before you go out, do whatever it takes to get into your zone. Whether it’s watching your favorite gangster movie, rapping in your mirror, or going to the gym to get your pre-bar swell. This will allow you to go out with the feeling that you are on top of the world, and girls pick up on that in a heart beat. Believe it or not, the next thing there looking at is your shoes. This is not a myth, I have enough girl friends that have confirmed this. Why? Because shoes tell allot about a person. If your wearing dress shoes for instance it shows that you’re classy, where as if you are wearing running shoes it shows your athletic, and socks and sandals show that you’re lazy. The rest of your looks are up to their personal preference. However, looks will only get you so far. Girls are interested in guys that can hold their attention, which is sometimes done by not giving them any at all. Let me explain..

If your looking to hook up with the sexiest girl at the bar, give her the least attention. As soon as you compliment her, her head will be so swollen and your chance just went out the window with it. The last thing you want to do is use the “B” word.. Beautiful. You want to first approach her friend and casually give her a half compliment, half diss. For example, “Hey nice heels, my sister has the same pair.” This will show you’re sincere, but not flattered. It will bring her down a notch to reality, where she will then be dying for your attention. Now you just need to keep the good vibes rolling and she’s all yours.. for the night. You never want to get attached to these type of women.. they are the heart breakers. Therefore, if it’s love and not lust that you’re after, unfortunately, you need to compromise the looks.

To take your skills and abilities a step further, a good thing to learn are a few simple magic tricks. Everyone loves magic tricks and nothing will grab their attention better. This also makes you mysterious to them, they will want to take the time to get to know more about you.

My final tip is what they call ‘Pea-cocking’. Pea-cocking is wearing something flashy that will draw attention, like a pea-cock’s feathers. Simple but effective items such as, a watch, necklace, bracelet or rings. Personally, I’m a big fan of Vitaly Design items. A basic black v-neck tee, a fresh pair of jeans, and a clean pair of kicks will do the trick.

If you want to learn about the secret society of pick-up artists , there is a book called The Game by Neil Strauss. Strauss is a journalist who stumbles across the society while working on an article. Intrigued by the subculture, he starts participating in the online discussion groups, mainly out of frustration with his own romantic life. As he becomes more and more involved in the romantic community, Strauss attends a boot camp conducted by a man identified as “Mystery.” The boot camp consists of Strauss and other participants approaching women, and then Mystery and his counterpart Sinn giving them corrective advice on their behaviors, body language, and what to say. This book is a true story and a guide as each chapter is designed to teach you the next step in the process.

Below is an interview Neil did with Jimmy Kimmel where he explains the book and tries to wheel Jessica Alba. Hopefully you found this helpful, good luck homie.

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I’ve recently gotten into the EDM scene around Toronto and the the main reason for this is not the music, but the EDM Girls.  The rave attire that they wear are the sexiest outfits by far. Typically, the basis of their outfit is a pair of booty shorts and a bra for starters. They also incorporate many different types of accessories such as bead bracelets, baby soothers, Kandi masks, furry boots and sleeves, and various glowing items to draw your attention even further.

These girls know how to party and are the most fun loving people I have ever met in my life. PLUR, which stands for Peace Love Unity Respect, is a common term used in the EDM world and these girls live it to the fullest. When you go to any other style of club, girls are typically stuck up, attention seeking, and only looking for you to buy them a drink or two. EDM girls are usually on molly and not looking for drinks, therefore they just want to dance and appreciate a good time.

If you have never been to an EDM club I would suggest you drive by a line up one time and see for yourself!

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See what I mean?

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